Wikipedia defines Self-esteem as “…a term in psychology
to reflect a person's overall evaluation or appraisal of her or his own worth”[1]
Do you have a high or low self esteem? Our culture has blamed “low” self esteem for
bad behavior, underachieving in school, work and even families. The twist of
low self esteem is that it is really not low at all. On the contrary, it
is an attitude that thinks we deserve better than we are getting. From
our point of view this then justifies whatever actions we take to make things
fair.
This error has its
roots in a good idea, all be
it a good thing taken too far. Self esteem has been confused with the
value of the human, which is truly beyond price. There is respect and
dignity due a human just for being human. However, everything a human
does are not equal and do not and should earn esteem and respect.
The Apostle Peter
says through Jesus’ right to give life, we take on His “esteem and valor”[2]
by grace, as a gift not something we earn. This good esteem becomes valid
not because we are good. It is valid by His right to pardon our bad
behavior. With his right to pardon He broke down the wall[3]
between us and God. This allows us to interact with Jesus and thus
acquiring what CS Lewis calls, “a good infection”[4].
That good infection infects us with Jesus himself. The symptoms of this
infection sets us free so we can be like Him and do the things that deserve
“esteem”.
How is your
“infection”, or should I say, self esteem? Paul suggests that it is best
not to preoccupy ourselves or judge such things. All this being said, the
best way is to ignore self esteem altogether[5].
The best way is to take Jesus’ simple words and choose to look after
God’s[6]
best interest or to love[7]
Him. We do this by choosing to keep[8]
His word. The good we do then becomes a natural byproduct of the good infection
that comes by interacting with Jesus. Interacting with Jesus[9]
is our privilege and exceeding great reward[10].
Question: Should
your ability to keep God’s word then be the proper measure of your esteem?
Absolutely NOT! Stay tuned!
[2]
2 Peter 1:2-7” Grace and peace be yours in abundance through the
knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord. 3
His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through
our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. 4 Through these he has given us his very great and
precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine
nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. 5 For
this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to
goodness, knowledge; 6 and to knowledge, self-control; and to
self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; 7 and to
godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness”
New International
Version (NIV) Copyright © 1973,
1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica.
http://www.biblegateway.com/versions/New-International-Version-NIV-Bible/
Exposition: This
is taken from the interlinear Greek and New Testament Greek Lexicon, by review
each key word and applying contemporary words and sentence structure so the
sentence makes sense today.
2 Peter 1:2 – 7 Grace and peace to you be multiplied in
recognition of the God and Jesus the Master of us, as to us all the divine
ability of him toward life and respect (devoutness), having been
given gratuitously to us through the recognition of the one calling us to own esteem
and valor through which the valuable and great promises effect us, have
been given gratuitously that through these you become divine communioners
by nature fleeing from the system of desiring the forbidden. Give diligence
beside this to supply to your faith the valor, in yet the valor add knowledge,
in yet the knowledge add (in-holding) self control, in yet the (in-holding)
self control, under-remaining, in yet and in the under-remaining respect and
yet in the respect brotherly-affection, in yet the brother-affection the
agape.
[3]
Ephesians 2:14”For
he is our peace, who hath made both one, and hath broken down the middle wall
of partition between us; 15Having abolished in his flesh the enmity, even
the law of commandments contained in ordinances; for to make in himself of
twain one new man, so making peace; 16And that he might reconcile both
unto God in one body by the cross, having slain the enmity thereby: 17And
came and preached peace to you which were afar off, and to them that were nigh.
18For through him we both have access by one Spirit unto the Father.
19Now therefore ye are no more strangers and foreigners, but
fellowcitizens with the saints, and of the household of God; 20And are
built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself
being the chief corner stone; 21In whom all the building fitly framed
together groweth unto an holy temple in the Lord”
King James Version (KJV) Public Domain.
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[5]
1 Corinthians 4:3 But with me it is a very small thing that I should be judged
by you or by a human court. In fact, I do not even judge myself.
4For I know of nothing against myself, yet I am not
justified by this; but He who judges me is the Lord.
King James Version
(KJV) Public Domain.
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[6]
John 14:23 Jesus answered and said to him, “If anyone loves Me,
he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will
come to him and make Our home with him.
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Version (NIV) Copyright © 1973,
1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica. http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John+14&version=NIV
[7]
John 14:15 If you love Me, keep My commandments.”. King
James Version (KJV) Public Domain
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John+14%3A12-17&version=KJV
[8]
John 14:21 He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he
who loves Me. And he who loves Me will be loved
by My Father, and I will love him and manifest Myself to him.”
New International
Version (NIV) Copyright © 1973,
1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica.
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John+14&version=NIV
[9]
1 John 1:3 3That which we have seen and heard declare
we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship
is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ.
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(KJV) Public Domainhttp://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20John%201:3&version=KJV
[10]
Genesis 15:1 1After these things the word of the LORD came unto
Abram in a vision, saying, Fear not, Abram: I am thy shield, and thy exceeding
great reward.
King
James Version (KJV) Public Domain. http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%2015:1&version=KJV
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